I heard this song by Martina McBride and quite liked it. It made me think of all the times when Hannah is trying to be just like me. And in so many ways, I want her to just improve on the better parts of me but just get rid of those weaknesses. (no pressure though Miss Hannah!!) But I love that kids do see goodness in those around them. They might see a pregnant mama who's belly is getting bigger but they sense why that is such a special miracle. My kids forgive so many of my faults and can rebound with a huge hug and kiss and words of love. And that little sparkle in my kids' eyes, does keep me going on in a happier way on so many days. So, that is quite why I like this song. And perhaps even though I don't want to have an elevated view of my parenting skills (see previous post), I suppose I do wish for my kids to remember more of my kind moments than my impatient moments. Perhaps the hope and faith our kids have in us does help us become a little better and stronger each day.
Here are the lyrics:
In my daughter's eyes I am a hero
I am strong and wise and I know no fear
But the truth is plain to see
She was sent to rescue me
I see who I wanna be
In my daughter's eyes
In my daughter's eyes everyone is equal
Darkness turns to light and the
world is at peace
This miracle God gave to me gives me
strength when I am weak
I find reason to believe
In my daughter's eyes
And when she wraps her hand
around my finger
Oh it puts a smile in my heart
Everything becomes a little clearer
I realize what life is all about
It's hangin' on when your heart
has had enough
It's giving more when you feel like giving up
I've seen the light
It's in my daughter's eyes
In my daughter's eyes I can see the future
A reflection of who I am and what will be
Though she'll grow and someday leave
Maybe raise a family
When I'm gone I hope you see how happy
she made me
For I'll be there
In my daughter's eyes
7 comments:
I'm with you on not wanting daughters to copy my faults/negative traits. That's where I come down on them the hardest and they are probably wondering why there is such a double standard. We're just doing the best we can though - right?
Heather, You are wonderful. If Hannah grew up to be just like you it would be a good thing. I know how you feel though. Sometimes I feel like I must be ruining my children and who they will turn out to be. I pray every night that they can overcome the faults in my parenting and turn out all right after all! Heavenly Father sure trusts us to give us these little children. I never feel I'm living up to that trust, but thankfully each morning is a new day and we can give it a new try. Love you!
P.S. This song makes me cry. It reminds me to enjoy the little moments.
I love that song too Heather...it reminds us to stay on track. Like Mary said, we are doing the best we can!
Heather,
You must have been inspired to post that song. I don't have a daughter right now but I could relate to the song and to your post. Thank you. I am sorry about not ever emailing you my link to my web site. I thought you knew to just click on my name at the top of my comment cause it will take you to my page. Sorry, my husband is a computer guy/nerd (I love him!) and i just assume or take a lot for granted. Thank you for the comments on my blog. And also, YES, I was talking about you being a skinny girl after having your kids. I saw you mowing the lawn... you are thin... just don't look at my pics. That is probably why they aren't posted very often!!! yikes. Keep up the good work. i love your blog and the things you have to say. I hope you are feeling better too with your pregnancy. I have been sick (due in Feb) but it is getting better. Take care!
Abby :)
I love this song. I am so glad I have boys, because I'm not sure I could handle a girl. It kind of scares me. I'm not sure I could handle the pressure of a girl. Not that boys are so much easier, but for some reason a girl kind of scares me. You are obviously a wonderful mom, Hannah is lucky.
I love this song. I am so glad I have boys, because I'm not sure I could handle a girl. It kind of scares me. I'm not sure I could handle the pressure of a girl. Not that boys are so much easier, but for some reason a girl kind of scares me. You are obviously a wonderful mom, Hannah is lucky.
Having the blessing/responsibility of children, boys or girls, really does help us want to be as great as they think we are. Excellent song!
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