A Mama's Ramblings

My thoughts this week have been about Priorities and Perspective. This quote from general conference has been a part of those thoughts. I think it's time to sift through my life and reevaluate TIME management, ORDER in the home, and then take steps to SIMPLIFY [definition: to make simple or simpler; to reduce to basic essentials]. Doesn't that sound refreshing?

A constant theme in my life is 'A Mother's Work is never done.' I suppose I say that when I feel discouraged about all the work there is to do (like every day!!!). One of my wise friends said that she learned to differentiate between household tasks and mothering so that she wouldn't get discouraged about being a mother, when it was really the household things that were so daunting. Though reality is that there is a close link between the two because our families create much of the work we as housekeepers do (meaning the kids sure do make messes and create mounds of dirty laundry and dishes).

BUT I think it's important for me to remember that though the daily tasks are tedious and sometimes annoying, these have an important place in our life. Challenges build character (thanks for this theme Steph) and for me, tedious household tasks sometimes feel like tiny challenges multiplied because of the enormity of keeping a home running smoothly (without everyone, including mom, breaking down in tears every day).

So what is my point? I suppose my point is that even in the midst of constant work to be done, tedious tasks, low energy, and whining kids, there are blessings that come from mothering kiddos and cleaning house (I think my challenge is to recognize those blessings).
I see in this woman hope; in her stance and appearance and gaze. I see her as someone who works hard but who recognizes the blessings in her life because she senses the value of her mission as mama/wifey/homemaker. But in that same breath, I recognize that she is outdoors perhaps taking a breather and trying to regroup so that she can go back inside and survive the rest of the day without going crazy. Maybe wondering if all her efforts are worth it? Maybe letting the breeze whisk away her worries? But in the end, I see HOPE in her future. That is who I'm aiming to become...realistic about limitations and expectations of self and others, but hopeful and optimistic about my role and purpose.

So yes, a mother's work is never done and daily tasks won't disappear on their own (where is that dish fairy??), but a higher vision and perspective might make it go more smoothly. And the blessing for me to recognize is that the Lord will strengthen and bless me to perform stronger than I am able on my own. Now, that is my hope for I certainly need it!